Post by meimei on Nov 25, 2005 16:21:02 GMT 7
if a man wants you, nothing can keep him away
if he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay
stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
slower is better. never live your life for a man before you find what trully makes you happy.
if a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
a friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. don't settle. if you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
don't stay because you think 'it will get better". you'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
[glow=red,2,300]the only person who can cotrol in a relationship is you.[/glow]
avoid men who've got bunch of children by a bunch of different women. he didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. why would he treat you any differently?
always have your own set of friends separate from his.
maintain boundaries on how a guy treats you. if something bothers you, speak up. never let a man know everything.
he will use it against you later. you cannot change a man's behaviour. change comes from within.
dont EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even he has more education or in a better job. do not make him into a quasi-god.
he is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
[glow=orange,2,300]never let a man define who you are.[/glow]
never borrow someone else's man.
if he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
a man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
all men are NOT dogs.
you should not be the one doing all the bendings.... compromise is always a two-way street.
you need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
you should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary...
dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be MR. RIGHT...
[glow=pink,2,300]make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him ---- he takes it for granted...[/glow]
never move into his mother's house. never co-sign for a man.
don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. keep him in your radar but get to know others.
now ladies, smile... rethink your choices and prepare....
they say it only takes a minute to find a special person
an hour to appreciate them
a day to love them
and an entire lifetime to forget them....